Cocomma's Diaries
Anecdotes, truths, and reflections from the heart of an AkwaCross second daughter – about life, identity and everything in between.
- Ghosting or Avoidance, Same Meaning, Not Interested
- Woman, You Were Made Whole
- Peaceful Men Do Not Need To Announce It
- I Regret It All
- Never Say Never
- Reading What Isn’t There
- Nigerian False Preachers: The Bible Does Not Give You Immunity
- Biafra Is Not My Freedom
- Food Has a Passport: Africa Is Not a Kitchen
- My Traumatic Experience with an Insecure Wife
- Nigeria Does Not Love Women
- Preparation in the Pit
- You Don’t Love That Child, You Just Refused to Think First
- Born Nigerian
- The Problem With Your Question About “Tribe”
- The Devil Takes the Blame, Nigerians Take Nothing
- Devout on Sunday, Different on Monday
- Not Now, Not Never
- Beyond Denominations
- When Silence Falls
- Scarcity Does Not Equal Value for Practicing Christians
- The Loneliness of Being Understood
- Where My Thoughts Go to Breathe
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Category: Uncomfortable Truths
A space for the truths we often avoid, told from a place of lived experience and reflection. Here, I speak plainly, not to offend but to bring honesty to conversations we shy away from.
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I love spending some of my free time online reading people’s thoughts but lately, a lot of the content I have been seeing has led me to believe that many women approach dating with very distorted perceptions. I have found that what irritates me most is how many women try to overcomplicate obvious disinterest by…
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The Problem Isn’t the Rules, It’s the Projection I love watching certain debates because I am endlessly fascinated by how people can read the exact same text and somehow come away with completely different interpretations. Interpretive divergence is one of those things I never get tired of observing, and this is a textbook example of…
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I was scrolling through social mediocum when I came across a post from a woman calling out her supposedly child’s father for being a bum. According to her, she forgave him for cheating in the past. She got pregnant, and while pregnant, he supposedly cheated the whole time. She was due to deliver when a…