Cocomma's Diaries
Anecdotes, truths, and reflections from the heart of an AkwaCross second daughter – about life, identity and everything in between.
- Fine Girl, Big Discernment: Survival Tactics Beyond Words
- Your Desperation Makes You Unattractive
- Ghosting or Avoidance, Same Meaning, Not Interested
- Woman, You Were Made Whole
- Peaceful Men Do Not Need To Announce It
- I Regret It All
- Never Say Never
- Reading What Isn’t There
- Nigerian False Preachers: The Bible Does Not Give You Immunity
- Biafra Is Not My Freedom
- Food Has a Passport: Africa Is Not a Kitchen
- My Traumatic Experience with an Insecure Wife
- Nigeria Does Not Love Women
- Preparation in the Pit
- You Don’t Love That Child, You Just Refused to Think First
- Born Nigerian
- The Problem With Your Question About “Tribe”
- The Devil Takes the Blame, Nigerians Take Nothing
- Devout on Sunday, Different on Monday
- Not Now, Not Never
- Beyond Denominations
- When Silence Falls
- Scarcity Does Not Equal Value for Practicing Christians
- The Loneliness of Being Understood
- Where My Thoughts Go to Breathe
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Category: Faith & Scripture
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I cannot stress this enough, but I find it deeply disheartening how some women have idolized relationships and marriage to the point where self respect, discernment, and rational judgment become completely eroded. Attraction and respect are tied to choice and self respect, thus once a man has clearly stated that he has chosen someone else,…
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I listened to the excerpt from the screenshot above that was shared of Stephanie Ike’s sales pitch disguised as sermon, and it was nothing more than a saleswoman trying to advertise herself in the way she wants to be addressed and perceived. The most abused stance by Nigerian pulpit hustlers who parade themselves as preachers…
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How Life’s Detours Forge Our Purpose It’s Saturday evening, but I’m already sitting here thinking about all the things I need to get done at work on Monday. I love my job so much, and I still get super excited going in every day. I don’t do it anymore, but there was a time I…
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Returning to the Simplicity of Biblical Teachings I met up with an acquaintance the other day and we got to talking about worship. It ended with them insisting it was mandatory for people to gather physically at a “church” for worship because the Bible commanded so. An argument I strongly disagreed with. Growing up, I…
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What Saul’s Visit to the Witch of Endor Taught Me God is not confined to our categories. The real test of faith is not chasing answers in forbidden places, but waiting in humility and trust. I recently read a thought-provoking piece from Paul Walker about Saul’s visit to the Witch of Endor which has been…